Micky Dolenz Sings The Praises Of R.E.M.

Growing up in the 90s often felt like the second 60s.

I was there for all the 60s and 70s throwbacks: the flower-power inspired clothing and accessories that were everywhere in trending teen fashion [many things which I still have, and fit πŸ™‚ ]; I binge-watched VH1’s “Seven Days Of 70s” [which I tried to watch for all seven days at the age of 13]; I indulged in the local oldies station, “Kool 96.7”; … And this 60s and 70s nostalgic love that the mid-90s was fondly reminiscing was part of how I learned about things like The Monkees.

But more than the literal throwback to the 60s and 70s, the 90s was like a reincarnation of the 60s in many ways–while outwardly dark and edgy, the 90s was inwardly soft, vulnerable, and naked. The 90s had a creative, awkward, deeply earnest aspect to its music and culture that was very much like the 60s, upside down. The 90s felt like, although clearly packaged differently, a time for people to become more true to themselves and more in touch with others, which is very much an underlying theme among so many movements of the 60s.

While in the 90s I myself was longing for the 60s in so many ways, as I grew and developed as a person, so did I grow and develop around the beautifully deep music of the 90s. I came to truly love that I could appreciate the 60s through the lens of the 90s, enjoy the comforts of the 90s era I was living in, and love 60s and 90s music both as one creative feeling inside me.

To this day, whether I’m browsing my local Stop & Shop and hearing “Counting Blue Cars” playing overhead, or ducking into a local bar and hearing a cover band cry out “Interstate Love Song”, 90s music is deeply a part of me.

So it’s pretty cool Micky Dolenz is now endorsed and covering songs by R.E.M.

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution can’t praise Micky enough: Micky Dolenz of Monkees fame sings the praises of R.E.M. in new EP.

The songs are absolutely fantastic.

I remember the day I sat in a science research class in the fall of 1996 in Greenwich High School and was reading through dream research articles I had photocopied. Our teacher gave us free reign to choose a research subject that interested us, and at 13 years old, I decided I wanted to read about what adults had to say about dreams. I recall then reading for the first time about “R.E.M.: Rapid Eye Movement”, which is the stage in sleep that it is believed a person is dreaming [or so was the theory back in the 90s]. I was enthralled, feeling in the cutting edge of something exciting in sleep, and science, and in myself… I recall staring at friends and family as they fell asleep, at their eyes, and wondering is it happening now? as I watched their beating eyelids dance [sorry everyone LOL].

Of course, I imagined the band “R.E.M.” was a nod to “Rapid Eye Movement”, dreaming: a deep, edgy, 90s way to reference this sacred space of dreams. Back in 1996, the internet was in its absolutely zygotic phase of development, and you could not “Google” this kind of thing–Google didn’t even exist; legends, folklores, rumors, and mystery were king during this time.

But modern day Wikipedia–if it can be trusted?–says nah.

“After considering names such as “Cans of Piss”, “Negro Eyes”, and “Twisted Kites”,[6] the band settled on “R.E.M.”, which Stipe selected at random from a dictionary.[10] R.E.M. is well known as an abbreviation for rapid eye movement, the dream stage of sleep; however, sleep researcher Rafael Pelayo reports that when his colleague William Dement, the sleep scientist who coined the term REM, reached out to the band, Dement was told that the band was named “not after REM sleep”.[11]

So, hmmmmmmmmmmmm….

The band R.E.M. may not be about dreaming, but this cover Micky Dolenz sings of “Shiny Happy People” sure is dreamy.

Welcome New Fans and Old Friends

Welcome! Many of you have come here to this site from my new Facebook page Through The Looking Glass.

After experiencing [the perhaps inevitable] harassment, hate speech, and attacks from certain fans, other supportive, loving fans suggested I start my own Facebook page to post my own work. πŸ™‚ Thank you! Since I have already been working on this website for about a year, this seemed like a natural next step.

Like with this website, all of this is a work in progress and figuring out what I want to do organically… As We Go Along.

While most of what I post on the new Facebook page will be my own content, such as the photos I have taken of The Monkees, I would also love to have fan involvement and post things like photos of your experiences with the Monkees as well. πŸ™‚ If you would like–love–to have one of your photos and/or stories shared of yourself with The Monkees, like maybe a concert experience or time you met them, etc. I would love to post that. Also, it doesn’t have to be a time you met the Monkees/interacted with them directly, if you want to share something like a photo of yourself holding your favorite Monkees album and talk about what it means to you, I welcome that as well. πŸ™‚ Please feel free to email me at emily@loveisonlysleeping.com, post here, or contact me through the new Facebook page, Through The Looking Glass.

Forever 28

Wishing Micky Dolenz a speedy recovery from exhaustion, jet lag, and altitude sickness. βœˆοΈ πŸ”

As Micky wrote:

“To my dear friends and fans (both old and new),
Apologies for the global post, but in response to the many calls, texts, emails and social media enquiries, I want to assure everyone that I am fine.
It turns out that extreme exhaustion, from a hectic 10 week schedule, jetlag (of the international variety), and high altitude do not mix well, and I want to apologize to anyone that had tickets for the two cancelled Park City, UT shows this past weekend.
Thank you ALL for the care, love and support you’ve shown me! I now intend to rest up and remind myself, again, that I’m 78 not 28!
Love and thanks,
Micky”

Micky Dolenz smiling in Central Park
Micky Dolenz smiling in Central Park

Songwriter Soliloquy

It’s been a roller coaster of feelings for me, presently.

One of the cutest photos I’ve taken of Micky Dolenz is getting lots of likes, comments, and shares on Facebook. This is the famous, “Pleasant Valley Sunday” photo, where I took Micky to see Pleasant Valley Way in West Orange, NJ, after we had lunch in Parsippany, and he “claimed” he had never been to Pleasant Valley Way before [really?]. Well, Micky had said he had never been, so after lunch I decided to drive him there… Or, he drove us, but I gave him directions, LOL. Whichever. Then we took photos.

Pleasant Valley Way is where Carole King and her then husband and songwriting partner, Gerry Goffin, lived in the late 60s, and was the inspiration for the song they wrote for The Monkees, “Pleasant Valley Sunday”, a number one hit in 1967.

So, yeah, it was pretty cool to bring Micky to that place.

Then, this weekend, I learned that Cynthia Weil had passed.

Cynthia Weil is probably one of the most influential people in my entire life that I have never met or known. Literally, this abstract figure, this artist in my mind’s eye, this person I knew was real but had no tangible connection other than all her words, writing, music, publishing… Cynthia Weil changed my life. And I never met her, or knew her, or spoke to her.

Cynthia Weil wrote “Love Is Only Sleeping”. She co-wrote it with her husband and creative partner, Barry Mann.

Literally the domain I have had and used for over twenty years.

If my domain is proof of nothing else, it is proof that Cynthia Weil touched and effected my entire life on a deeper level.

Yes, Cynthia Weil is a woman has had a strong influence on me.

Cynthia wrote so many songs that have been in so many of our lives…

Cynthia co-wrote “Somewhere Out There”, the first of her songs I ever heard in my entire life, in this life.

I first heard “Somewhere Out There” when I was 4 years old, and it effected me as deeply and emotionally then, as all her songs, and all her counterparts’ songs, effected me when I was later exposed to them in my teenage years and adult years…

Someone wrote on my Facebook and said Cynthia Weil and Carole King were good friends, and that I should read Carole King‘s autobiography.

Oh God, will I. ❀️

… but know everything lost will be recovered…

Ah. Somehow someone got this site removed from Google’s indexing. That’s cute. WELL: we’re back.

I mean, really?

Goldmine magazine has a new article, Micky Dolenz details the making of The Monkees’ ‘Headquarters’ album, featuring a recent [?] interview with Micky Dolenz, and an introduction by Ken Sharp.

If you’re a well-versed fan, a lot of this is old hat. “Well, right from the get-go, Mike Nesmith was very frustrated as singer-songwriter. He’d been promised when they were casting him that he would have the chance to record his own material.” Uh huh: if you’ve been a fan for at least 48 hours, you have probably heard about this scenario before.

To be honest, I’m not sure why this all has to be re-hashed so many times. There are numerous sources with this material, and I feel there are deeper things to cover…